I got to thinking about Halloween over the weekend. It is a very unique holiday. How you view and celebrate depends on so many factors. Your age is a big factor of course, but your community, your social group, your family background and even the weather factor in to how you will spend Halloween. On top of that, Halloween has evolved over the years. Even year to year the popular costumes change and what is socially acceptable or politically correct varies also.
As a child, my Halloween involved a simple costume (pirate, hobo, football player) and a planned route to maximize candy! My friends and I would meet at one side of town and cover as many streets as possible until we got to the other side of town. Our small town was laid out in a grid making planning this route fairly simple.
High school and college involved parties and more elaborate costumes. Back then politically correct wasn’t a term yet, and many of the college costumes proved that. When I first moved to Wayland, Halloween parties with new friends were a social event I looked forward to every year.
As a newly-wed, the couples costume was the most important thing. Then, as a parent, Halloween became all about showing off your child in their adorable costume. After that, it was mostly about worrying if it would rain or snow, or how to get that winter jacket under the power ranger costume.
Today there is trunk trick or treating, Haunted Halls in schools and the Halloween weekend is just as important as the day itself. I see photos of parties on Facebook, and see the costumes of kids and adults. Thinking about it makes me a little sad. Sara and I haven’t dressed up in years. We are moving to the country and may never get trick or treaters again. Sara makes the occasional costume for a grown child of grandchild, but I think Halloween may be passing us by.
It’s a shame that a holiday with so many wonderful memories now may go by virtually unnoticed. Well, maybe I won’t let that happen. I will wear a costume at work and embrace Halloween. I will provide candy and donuts for employees and patients. I will make sure it is a fun day at the office. After all, Halloween and all that candy is job security!!
Thanks for Reading,